Ah the throb of life in New York City. The lights, the people, the sidewalk bars brimming with the jolly many, the medley of bizarre costumes. Welcome to a night of gargantuan proportions. On one hand there were these strange airy-fairy creatures roaming around town — my pick of them all was a Marie Antoinette and Louis XVI zombie couple in their coiffed off-white wigs standing at a bistro on the sidewalk. And at the other end of the spectrum were boys and girls in tuxes and ball gowns, straight out of Gossip Girl, climbing up the steps of the New York Public Library with noses in the air, heads held high.
The night was alive and we were heading with the keenness of a precision-guided missile to the ramen-laden embrace of Wagamama in the Flatiron. On our mind were its chilli squids because boy have we missed ’em. In a mall in Milton Keynes, for example, on a superbly grey day in England we ended up going back twice to Wagamama for lunch and dinner — because we were not satisfied with just two servings of chilli squids at one go. We went back for more – for dinner – and the guy who had served us in the afternoon was confounded. ‘You Really like Wagamama, eh?’ he said. No shit, Sherlock.
Wagamama kept us going – because as with London, NYC can work your quads in a way not even a stairmaster can.
We had started the day at the New York Public Library because I had to return my books and renew my membership card. But as it turns out, my name came to my rescue. My usual practice is to come up with a nom de guerre for Starbucks and for those I know would struggle to figure out my name. One of my neighbours, a guy had told me sagely a while ago on an evening of purple hues and barbecue that I should not bother changing it. He had added: ‘Let them try and get it. Don’t change your name to suit anybody.’ Well at a library you cannot deal in any kind of pseudonyms, can you, with the State ID and all that thrown into the mixture? The woman at the check-out desk took a look at my name and said, ‘The same name as the writer! How do you pronounce it?’ She tried it on her tongue a few times till she got it. So yes, Arundhati Roy, the woman with magic in her pen, worked her fame and what happened was that even though the card is allotted for three months to anyone outside the county of NY and has to be renewed regularly, I got it for three years. I wanted to hug her.
With a halo of happiness hanging around me, I headed towards Central Park with Adi. There was such beauty in the air there even though the colours were not pronounced. A guy lay back on the grass and read a book, leaves wafted all around us like we were on the sets of a film, it was poetic, the charm of the evening…a golden retriever was commanded repeatedly by its master to sit and meet a little girl. His name was Jasper, the dog’s that is…Jasper refused to sit down. Yeah Jasper, you are not some performing clown. At the ice rink, Adi spotted a young boy of about 8 or so who skated like a ballet dancer, moving his arms oh so fluidly in tandem with the easy gliding of his feet clad in roller skates…we were transfixed by the prowess within that little body. Then the odd sight of a bride who was in the midst of a photo shoot with her man in a denim jacket and Stetson hat.
Later we sauntered down Fifth Avenue, wandering in and out of stores. We entered Bergdorf Goodman where women with botox-ed, grim faces piled up boxes of expensive shoes like it was their birthright…Adi was determined to buy me a pair of Manolo Blahniks, so I had to don silk stockings and slip my feet into a pair of lace boots with stiletto heels so high that I thought I would keel over the moment I stood on them. Much to his disappointment, I returned them perfunctorily, sighed over a pair of fuchsia pink booties adorned with zardozi on the cuffs and heels. There is a photo of them below that I caught at the display window. The booties are a result of a collaboration between Indian fashion designer Sabyasachi and Christian Louboutin. Now Sabyasachi makes me proud as my home-town boy from Calcutta because his design sensibility is special. He does not pretend. He uses his roots and folklores and the result are designs that make you swoon. The prices do too. I dropped it all like a hot potato and headed outside, an annoyed Adi at my heels because my beloved wants to pamper me for my upcoming birthday. It made my heart swell with love because the thought is all that counts, is it not? This husband of mine is a gem. Yes, I should spare you the camp notes. But really, I was overwhelmed and I chose to indulge instead in a few stunning winter dresses from Zara with silhouettes and sleeves that made the heart trill.
Then we bought financiers, brownies and bread from this beautiful boulangerie and when we reached Wagamama, the delectable crunch of the squids sprinkled with shichimi, a Japanese chilli pepper mixture, and a huge bowl of ramen hit the right notes. Then home and pastries. Later wine to soak it all up.
And now I shall go pack my stuff for we head out to Worcester in a while. Toodles.
Love New York!
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I cannot but agree.
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Lovely
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Thank you 🙂
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I’ll take those pink boots, thank you very much! Great pictures.
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Hah good choice, they were grand 🙂 Thank you 🙂 xx
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So many lovely pics of the city! The NYPL building on 5th Avenue never fails to stun. And though our first experience at the Library After Dark event left us feeling like there was room for improvement, there’s no question the space would be perfect for a masquerade ball. Those treats from Maison Kayser look scrumptious 🙂
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Thank you Lynn. The goodies are buttery, not too sweet and just perfect 🙂 The NYPL building is a beauty. The first time I Iaid my eyes on it, I was thrilled. Are those After Dark events any good?
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We went to the inaugural event (post here in case you’re interested: http://madhattersnyc.com/2017/02/27/library-after-hours-love-in-venice/) so there were some hiccups, but I’m sure they’ve worked some of the kinks out! Definitely worth checking out. And dressing up is always encouraged, Halloween or not 😉
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The boys and girls looked beautiful …there were tuxes and fascinators, big gorgeous hats and plunging necklines. I looked it right up now and it seems like it was like a soiree for the Yale Alumni Association of NY. Explains it all.
I would love to go to a masquerade ball in an elaborate gown and an exotic mask in hand. Btw I loved your red midi skirt look. xx
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Awesome photos! You’re strong to resist shoes?
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I know. Someday I will remedy it 😉 But to walk around on shoes worth 2000 bucks and above makes my heart quail. My middle-class upbringing kicks in here 😛
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Ya I couldn’t do that either! Thankfully I’ll never be tested as I have kid sized feet. My mom says that I must be small so I wouldn’t bankrupt myself on shoes?
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That is a wise and relieved mum, I spy 😉 xx
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Amazing pics hun! ❤
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Thank you Maha 🙂 xx
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Wow- this sounds so awesome! And i love all the photos. I was just in NYC last week!!!
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Hey Courtney, were you now! You must have had a lovely time because the weather has been nice. Thank you, it is difficult not to get great photos in the city 🙂 xx
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Hi there A, ah finally! 🙂
Wow I never knew a library can loan books for 3 years. That’s amazing.
oh yeah I remember Gossip Girl! And those shoes, ah those shoes, they remind me of S and the City.
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Tee hee. I know that I have not mentioned it on my profile but now you know. You are right, those shoes would fit right into Sex and the City. Carrie would do them justice.
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Such beautiful photos. NYC looks like such an amazing city, I surely hope I get the opportunity to visit someday!
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Thank you Natalie! It does have colour around every corner. I am sure you will and do it in style. What do they say about it – live in it but leave before it makes you too hard 🙂 xx
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Aww, that’s so sweet of your husband to want to pamper you for your birthday! Your sweetheart!
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Thank you Jen. Aren’t we lucky to have such love in our lives! 🙂 xx
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Yes, we are! 🙂
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You look so pretty by the park!! I can only imagine how things look in NYC through the holidays! So fun! I have to say I giggled about the library card incident. I had one of those names too… never spelled or pronounced correctly. Madness, I tell you! ?
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Thank you Paula 🙂 🙂 You have the shortest, easiest name! The library card was a high that carried me through the day. Of course the day kept giving! xx
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Fantastic post! You post are full of life, wit, laughter, emotions and stories. Thanks for sharing this lovely post. ?
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Hiya, thank you 🙂 You are so kind and lovely. Have a lovely week!
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What a night and adventure ?
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Tee hee…it was not too bad 🙂 a night out in the city once in a while helps. xx
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Agreed ?
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NEW YORK! NEW YORK! All the sights and sounds! There are so much to see. So many things to buy. Some many…. I love your walk and your photos!
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Thank you Miriam. It was something to capture before the memories got lost. That is what I feel every time I walk there. NEW YORK! NEW YORK! xx
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Yes, no place is like NEW YORK!
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Who needs $2,000 shoes when you have such love and chocolate pastries to warm the soul!
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Aww you are my kind of a soul! The love is enough to keep me warm for as long as I live and the pastries the proverbial cherry 🙂 xx
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Totally understand the whole name thing! It’s interesting to hear how others pronounce our names! I always used to get referred to as L’Oreal….as in the cosmetic brand!! Go figure! Love your gorgeous pics of NYC. You took me back Arundhati. I miss it so. Xx
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Ahahaha that is funny 🙂 Thank you Lorelle…you must visit it again then. Revive the old memories and add a bunch of new ones. xx
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For sure!! ?
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Another great post. I did drift off during the shoe paragraph, but that’s probably a gender thing. If you’d replaced it with a write up on the Belgian Beer Cafe, I’d have been hooked! The ice rink in Central Park took me back to happy memories of when I was there. I think the ice was of low quality, because I couldn’t stand up on it without clinging to the wall at the side 🙂
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Ah so it brought back memories from your stint at the ice rink. Well I would not be brave enough to take a go at it without knowing how to roller skate.
Thank you but the Belgian Beer Cafe was on our mind but by the time we left Wagamama, my legs could not be asked to take another 4 steps and I had to deny us the pleasure of trying a few ales there. Next time we shall make it our first stop 🙂
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Gorgeous photos as always! I’m incredibly jealous that you were able to experience NEW YORK at Halloween! I can just imagine what an absolutely amazing sight that was! Also, how lucky you were able to get a 3 year card! Lady luck was on your side…as was the woman with the magic in her pen 😉 xx
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Heh, oh yeah. She helped my cause and if I ever have the opportunity to meet her, I shall let her know about the good deed she did just by dint of her fame. Small victories 😉
Thank you for the appreciation btw. NYC gives you photos and moments that you do look back at and say, ‘I wish I could go back’. So we keep going back. You will experience it someday, I know it. xx
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NY looks amazing! What an experience it must be to actually live there. Great photos!
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Thank you 🙂 It is a vibrant city, Pooja. I am falling for it a little extra every time. xx
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You see absolutely everything on the streets of New York – great photos! Never tried Wagamama but those squid look mighty fine and I loooove chilli. Have a great Halloween, though not a holiday I’ve ever gotten into celebrating.
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Hey Sheree, thank you 🙂 NYC does give you wonderful photos every few seconds. The squids are exquisite. If you do go to Wagamama, it is a doozy.
I travelled with Adi to Massachusetts and only if we were in NYC participating in the Halloween parade on Tuesday might I have considered (but then I am awfully lazy). I love my role as a voyeur. xx
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Loved getting a peek into you trip to NYC. I also love that you mentioned Gossip Girl!
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Hey Natalie, thanks. If you had seen the men and women – I found out later that it was the Yale Alumni of NY meet – you would have not missed the GG feeling. It helped that they were at their snootiest best 🙂 xx
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“The night was alive and we were heading with the keenness of a precision-guided missile to the ramen-laden embrace of Wagamama in the Flatiron”
My favourite line. Although, that’s probably because Wagamama was one of my favourite places to eat when I lived in London.
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Why thank you 🙂 That was a line from deep with our stomachs. You are a connoisseur of all things great if you honed in upon Wagamama as your go-to on weekends in London. Also, may I know your name?
Just curious 🙂 Cheers.
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Nina ?
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Well hello Nina. I like using names while replying 🙂 That is my justification for being curious.
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Absolutely fascinating! I would love to walk the streets of New York on a spooky Halloween night and see all those costumes.
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I bet you would love it and turn around asking for photos like I did. There is a parade on Halloween itself which I shall miss out on unfortunately because I am not home. xx
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Interesting name “Wagamama”. I’ve often been called one by my mom 😉 Lovely post and photos of the current season. Can’t wait to see a post about Christmas in New York (hint?) The store windows are so beautiful – my favorite is the one with pearls falling out of the chairs. The pink shoes are stunning! Hope you have a wonderful Halloween! – Neek
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Ahahaha. I shall definitely get photos of its Christmas look before we leave for Italy and India in December, Neek. I love the grandness of the pearl display too…it is like a river of pearls! Which woman can avert her eyes? And those shoes 🙂
Though why does your mum call you Wagamama? 😀
And you have a fun Halloween too! xx
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Wagamama means a person that indulges too much in Japanese. The ramen restaurant sounds divine! Wish we had one here! – Neek
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Ah nice name then 😀 I would take it also for the sake of those crunchy chilli squids. I think we have finally found a bit of home in that corner of the Flatiron in NYC 😉
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The squids looked scrumptious! Now, If you excuse me, I need a snack 😉
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I am late to catch up on that but I hope that snack made it good 😀 xx
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???!!!
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Thank you for a fab post. (I do miss NY so)
And you have a NY public library card!? I am so jealous!
Green with envy. (That building has a special meaning for me)
I too use an alias here, particularly for restaurant reservations.
(Bruno Martinez) 🙂 Easier.
What IS your name? (Did I already ask you that?)
(Oh, and thanks for the speed, I’d barely posted my last that you rang a “like”. Have a lovely day and week)
Brian (aka)
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Ahahaha. Bruno Martinez. I love the sound of that. Appropriately hispanic. Mine is Arundhati…Arundhati Roy was your pointer 🙂 I am a speedy Gonzalez on the move. Not always though, sometimes I can be as slow as a slug.
I am quite kicked about my card 🙂 Do you have memories you can share about the NYPL?
Also, of course, thank you for the lovely comment!
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🙂 Arundhati is a lovely name. (With a famous namesake whose book I enjoyed tremendously; felt like 100 years of solitude in India). I knew you had to be a “Star”. And about the library. I spent 3 months in NY after Grad school trying to get a job in the middle of a crisis. Every morning I would go to the bank across the street, get a bag of dimes, go to a phone booth in the library (they were still there a few years back) and spend the morning calling for job interviews… Hence the fondness for the library. Booths were rather private, one could sit down. Nice. 🙂
Be good Arundhatiji.
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Thank you Martinezji. I just felt a 100 years old with Arundhatiji but 😀 That sounds like from a different era, your experience of sitting in booths and making calls for a job…it is a dramatic memory because one know nothing beats cracking a job especially in times of recession. A bag of dimes in hand…I could actually picture you.
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Martinezji?! That’s funny. Let’s say Brianji. 😉 I had no intention of pushing you ahead 80 years, ma’amji. I just find the diminutive “ji” to be very cute. How do you say father or grandfather in Hindustani?
(And the bag of dimes… it was fun. Though I didn’t get a job, that’s when I started to love New York).
Be good Ma’amji 😉
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No no Martinezji. There’s je ne sais quoi about it.
Father is papa and grandfather would be dada in Hindi.
I am trying my best to be good. But I always fail.
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Papa is the same in French. I thought is was Bapu. Now dada in French is kidword for a horse, so I think I will not go for that. Martinezji may be a tad difficult for the baby to pronounce. Bapuji?
Then be bad if it is your calling. 🙂
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There is bapu too but I think it is more in the rural areas. Gandhi was called bapu by the masses 🙂 I call my father baba because well we are Bengali.
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Baba does sound nice. I hope you keep in touch with your family as much as you can. 🙂
Bapu sounds nice. After Gandhiji? Would be an honour… 😉
Question: is Bengali very different from Hindustani?
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Oh yes. There is no getting away from my baba and ma 😉 They are always there at the back of my mind apart from a phone call away. I visit them soon anyway so looking forward to the fights and good food.
Bengali and Hindi are both derived from Sanskrit. There are words you find therefore common to both such as a foreign land or in our case more specifically England was referred to as Bilet in Bengali and Vilayat in Hindi. You see how the term Blighty was arrived at. Bengali is more rounded in its cadence and has a soft touch about it 🙂
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I will have to search a Bengali song to listen to the rhythm. Bilet = vilayat? Weird. I think Wilaya may be an Arabic word. Means district or province in Algeria… When are you going home? End of year? Dreams of mouth-watering food? 😉
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Well what do you know. They are a derivative of Wilaya. Vilayat is originally an Urdi word. And then Bilet to straight off Blighty because the British would have heard the Bengalis use it time and again. You know, Calcutta as the capital of the British Raj and all that.
I head home at the end of this year. Food in Calcutta always makes the soul sigh with pleasure.
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I am curious about Calcutta. My family stayed at Chandernagor for a good while. An uncle of my grandmother’s ran a steamer on the Hoogli. 🙂
Delighted that you should go home end of year. I can close my eyes and see the colours and smell the spices… 🙂
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Aha Chandernagore, now known as Chandannagar, and a former colony of the French where your family fits in I suppose. Lovely town I have heard from a friend who grew up there for a few years. Calcutta is an interesting mix. Can put you off or hold your heart in its Bengali fists. There is no in-between status there.
Your relative would have had a lot of stories to tell from his days on the Hoogli. Some not too flattering 😀
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My great-great-etc… grandfather arrived at Chandannagar in 1794. In the middle of the French Revolution . He married into an indigo planter family. Why not too flattering? The Hoogli sounds… very mysterious… 🙂
Dacoïts?
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What intriguing times! In the old times apparently it was normal for human and animal corpses to float down the Hooghly.
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I thought so. Don’t know why. Would that be because of funeral pyres for humans? Or just the fact that there so many people living close to the river?
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Yeah there were funeral pyres by the river in certain areas, and if I am not wrong, unclaimed bodies were often floated down it.
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Most likely.
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Love these pictures! You have a lovely eye for the NY landscape. Happy Halloween 🙂
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What an adventure! Spooky photos, some of them! Always fun to adventure w you, Dippy-Dotty Girl!
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Thank you Theresa 🙂 I am happy I have you on this journey you know! xx
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Me too! (hah!) I’m happy to be along!
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And, I’m glad you had your name pronounced correctly for once. – a great note.
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I have a new motto. I shall test people out 😉 xx
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I know, when I say my name (like for a coffee) – Theresa – they usually write it “Teresa”. Sometimes they ask! (“Is there an H or no H?”) For a little while I was giving my middle name, mainly to avoid the “h or no h” question, but then I decided, what the heck, just stick with Theresa and let the H go. 🙂
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They make you a saint 😉 xx
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St. Teresa, huh? ❤ I'm not a saint, though. I just do my best, as do we all (hopefully), eh? 🙂
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More like Mother Teresa 😀 Tee hee. I kid I kid. xx
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I’ll take the kidding! 🙂
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I really want to visit New York one day! Really enjoyed reading this post xx
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Thank you love. So you will and take it by your style 🙂 xx
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New York is so amazing. ?
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That it is 🙂 Thanks!
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Amazing city! Lovely to see such beautiful images of NYC after yesterday’s tragedy.
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Yes Caroline it is ghastly. The heart goes out for the families of those who have been affected. xx
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enjoyed this post, great to see NY always , those yummy treats are so to die for!
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Thank you Nisha 🙂 xx
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